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SPILLED MY HOT COFFEE

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  The author wants her readers to relate this picture to the below write-up, bringing about the good within you that you have carried, especially during any challenging situations.                SPILLED MY HOT COFFEE After taking a five-month break to cope with the loss of our beloved fur baby, KOVU —who will always be family to me, I found it very hard to get back to writing.   I found it difficult to settle on my next topic. For a long time, I couldn't find a subject that felt both simple and meaningful, yet strong enough to resonate with everyday life. Then, I came across a story that struck a chord. It's about a young man holding a steaming cup of coffee.   In one moment, everything changed: someone bumped into him, and the hot coffee splashed all over him and the ground, giving him burns on his hands. A gentleman nearby asked, "How did you get burnt?" The young man replied, "Someone bumped into me, and the hot coffee that I was holding in my cup spilled

Different stages of Fear

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                                               Just like this tree with different colors of leaves our life has different stages of fear that we go through.  Each stage of fear can be overcome by faith and self confidence. D ifferent S tages of F ear A s babies we have absolutely no fear of anything and anyone.   Babies are so innocent that they love and trust anyone who is loving and kind to them.   They do not judge anyone and are not analytical of what is going to happen to them if they behave in a certain way.   As we grow older as a kid we start adopting some kind of fear.   Fear of spiders, insects, creepers, fear of teachers who would shout at kids for certain mischiefs or if the homework is not done, fear of parents for answering back or not listening to them. Fear about losing any kind of game.   Fear of failing in school or in a competition.   This fear is inbuilt into the child giving them reason of the consequences. As we grow older from being a teenager to be middle ag

Kindness Matters

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                                Kindness Matters The author wants to express the real meaning of Kindness and how Kindness can keep you healthy and happy and it does not matter how small the act of Kindness is.    K indness is something that you do for others, without expecting anything in return. If you are reading this blog right now, it means that you are one of the many who have embraced kindness. Kindness comes in different forms. Every small act of kindness brings happiness, brings a smile , brings peace, brings contentment, brings satisfaction, brings joy, brings relief, to the person you do the kindness to and also to yourself.   Think about the different types of kindness that people have shown you throughout your life, right from your childhood till date. When you are a baby, how your parents have taken care of you, how they have gone through sleepless nights when you were sick, how they have kept awake worrying about your safety; praying until you have come home, wha

FACTS OF LIFE EXPERIENCES

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  The author found great joy in collecting facts of life experiences from people of all walks of life from all over the world, just so that someone who is in need at the right time will benefit from it. She is very grateful to all those who contributed. Here are some Life’s Learning Experiences or Facts of Life of each individual’s experience, who have willingly and graciously contributed to this topic.  These are experiences of people from all walks of life, (University Students, Housewives, Sales & Manager Professionals, Business owners and Retired Personnel's) and different age brackets beginning from age 20 to 70. We can learn from these experiences and improve our way of living and our way of thinking.  Its better to walk the minefield where somebody has already walked ahead of you.  Take the supermarket approach, grab what you need in your basket so that you can make use of it immediately and leave the rest behind that you do not need and/or cannot afford to take it.  Com

Goals & Distractions

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  You Can't Do Big Things  If You Are Distracted By Small Things   GOALS & DISTRACTIONS Its never too late to wish all my readers all the very best in 2024.   Stay well and Stay blessed everyone. This is my first write-up of 2024 and thinking about the new year we always set goals but how many times have we worked hard enough to achieve our goals?    I asked a few people around if they have set goals for this year and have, they achieved last years goals.    90% of them said they did set goals last year but the same goals have been carried forward to this year, and year after year, because they were unable to achieve it.    The reason most of them said is that they did not have the time and still struggling with time.   We all have 24 hours in a day.    8 hours we work either at home or in the office (we have no choice on this one unless you own your own business or happily retired), we will assume 7-8 hours we sleep in the night, another 1-2 hours we commute to work and back,

THE IMPOSSIBLE IS OFTEN THE UNTRIED

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  The author brings about the awareness of self-awareness to all her readers.   This has tremendously helped the author in her daily life, and this is one of the greatest maps for “road to success”.   When you make yourself aware of the importance of the impossible being the untried, you will succeed big time when you work on those impossible tasks that you thought were difficult and not achievable.   There is no doubt about your success in whatever you do.   “The Impossible Is Often the Untried”   There are 100s of Positive Attitude and Self Development books written by great authors in the past and recent years. I have read most of them and am truly inspired by all the authors who have coached me through their books throughout my life.     One of my favourite quotes is “The impossible is often the untried” quoted by Jim Goodwin.   If you go deep into this quote, you will realize that your achievements to your goals and dreams are only an action away. One action at a time.   H