Giving: A Powerful Act

 

The author emphasizes on the powerful impact of giving; how it impacts the giver more than the receiver and how giving positively can change your life for the better. 

GIVING – A POWERFUL ACT

Giving is such a powerful act that even the smallest act of giving can create a big impact. 

Giving does not only mean donating money. While being able to financially support those in need is truly wonderful, giving extends far beyond monetary donations. There are many tangible and intangible things we can offer; our time, kindness, encouragement, attention, and compassion that can create a powerful impact on the receiver.

Giving does not only transform the life of the one who receives, it often impacts the giver even more, especially when the giver has no material expectations or favors in return. It brings a deep sense of peace, fulfillment, and happiness that money alone cannot buy. This is why the saying holds true: “The more you give, the more you get.”

Let us look different ways of giving and whom it can impact.

Give Thanks: When we wake up in the morning, we give thanks to God for a new day and for the gift of life, to open our eyes and see the daylight. Many do not get the opportunity to see the morning after the night. When we give thanks to God, we acknowledge that He has done great things for us.

In the same way, when we consistently give thanks for the other blessings in our lives, both big and small, we experience a deep sense of satisfaction and comfort. Gratitude reminds us that God protects us, provides for us, and walks with us in every aspect of our lives.

Give a Smile: Throughout the day, we encounter many people, and one of the most priceless gifts we can offer is a smile. It may be to your neighbor, an office colleague, a bus driver, a security guard, a police officer, a teacher, or even a stranger passing by.

Giving a smile to someone you know is easy and natural. But offering a smile to a stranger you have never met before can be a true blessing to that person. No one comes with a label on their forehead with what they are going through.  It maybe depression, sickness, loss of a loved one or anything. You may be the first person to smile at them that day. They could be carrying unseen stress, sadness, or emotional weight, and that simple smile might remind them that they are noticed and not alone.

A smile can be the beginning of comfort, a silent gesture of kindness, or even the start of a conversation. When we choose to bring happiness to others, even in the smallest way, that same joy finds its way back into our own hearts.

Giving Your Time: Time is one of the most precious gifts we have. Once it is lost, it cannot be regained. Time can be given not only to others, but also to ourselves.

When you invest your time; whether in working toward your goals, building a project, helping someone in need, listening with empathy, coaching or guiding others with their consent, or educating yourself, it brings a deep sense of accomplishment, happiness, and peace of mind. This investment helps both the giver and the receiver to grow, flourish, and brighten their lives.

At the same time, where we choose to spend our time matters greatly. When time is invested in negative aspects of life such as unhealthy habits, gossip, or dwelling on discouraging and negative thoughts, the returns are often negative as well. Time, when used wisely, becomes a powerful tool for growth; when misused, it can quietly drain our joy and purpose. So, give your time to yourself and others wisely.

Giving Tangible Things: For me, giving tangible things does not require a special occasion. Whether it is to someone I love or someone in need, the act of giving itself brings immense happiness and a deep sense of peace. Seeing joy on another person’s face is a reward in itself.

There are many tangible things we can give—brand-new items that are useful, thoughtful gifts that bring a smile, or even things that have been resting in our own homes, unused, yet capable of serving a meaningful purpose elsewhere. What may seem insignificant to us could be of great value to someone else.

In both cases, the joy flows both ways. The receiver feels cared for and supported, and the giver experiences a quiet fulfillment and peace that only generosity can bring.

Personally, what I have learned from giving is:

·       It brings happiness to others and creates a big impact on their lives

·       It helps me to declutter my heart, my mind and my home

·       It taught me gratitude and humility

·       It brings me peace of mind and healing to my heart

·       It brings about an awareness in me how richly blessed  I am

·       It took me from a journey of pain to purpose

Take a moment to reflect on the things you can give to yourself and to others that will bring a smile, lasting happiness, and peace of mind. These simple acts of giving, done with intention and love, have the power to add meaning to our days and purpose to our lives.

Joy D'Penha

Life Coach and Freelance Writer